Virtual World, Virtual Feelings..

               Virtual World, Virtual Feelings

                  Great Lovers of Love run towards what everybody else is running away from. This is what makes them unique and special. For heart-felt people, every risk is a challenge, every pain, an opportunity to grow. The fist-sized heart embraces all sides of life, the positive and the negative, harmony and conflict, joyfulness and grievance. As I said ‘lovers are unique as they run towards what everybody else is running away from’ but the scenario has changed completely today in so called modern age or ‘computer-age’. It is perceived that lovers (as they think of themselves) are running away from themselves.

The computer screen or cellular phone screen acts as a medium between these two halves. But really does it? I mean people are found to be more fond of their computer screen, internet speed and all technological devices which attach them to the people rather than being fond of the people. But what is the significance of such attachment? It’s a virtual life so feelings are bound to be virtual.

               Emotions and feelings are the most powerful forces we experience inside us. Under the power of spontaneous feelings and emotions human beings can perform the most heroic acts or do the most violent things. So where do they lie in so called ‘Second Life’? Do they even exist over there? Let’s take example of Social Networking Sites. People fall in love with profile picture of a person. Just because its smasher it doesn’t mean the person has to be the same. Most of the time its tawdry resulting into confusion and stress. The other thing is the people commenting about a photo, update or any such thing. Just give a thought when you do such things do you always mean that with all your heart? If not how can you judge that the person meant it which leads to misunderstandings destroying mental balance of both.

               Pure feelings have no thought, there is no time for them in their most pure form. They come from a place beyond the thinking mind and they are often the most essential guides that steer our life. Feelings or movements of the heart can be seen as something we ‘feel’ but do not ‘think’. They pass-like a wave through our emotional center which is far quicker than the rational mind. So how can one rely on the feelings of virtual world? As a matter of fact they can’t even be labeled as feelings as our rational mind has a role over there. In virtual world we think before we act.

               Has it ever crossed your mind how heebie-jeebie one gets in real life after lots of interaction in virtual life? Face to Face connections are endangered. The awkwardness is at its peak. So how can you continue your relationship thereafter? The idiosyncrasy which was in virtual life is nowhere seen in actual. In second life there is no intonation. Usually it is found the people which start finding someone interesting usually turns out to be a drab leading to disturbances to mind. Individuals usually create a fantasy persona or Avatar which is misinterpreted. Generally risks of fraud or identity theft is observed.

               So People as they say ‘Get A Life’. Old is Always Gold. So stop staring at your dumb screen and be juvenile. Cupid has been always God of Love so don’t let your keyboard, keypad or mouse overcome it. Don’t let profile pictures amuse you when you can find much beautiful creation in real world. Neither let comment or replies influence your minds but find a person who really means it. Start interacting with people and get a better life. Get out of this S#it before you become a computerized object with no feelings. The Closed Heart can be like a dead weight stone, so cold and dead that nothing is really felt anymore, mostly thoughts and vague emotional conflicts, but no deep feelings. So people let the heart win over the technology!